Hey, so I'm a 5' 11" pre-op transwoman living full time since 01/2020 looking to connect with people.
I am independent and consider myself to be an ardent feminist. I'm looking for an older guy, at peace with themselves that knows what they want. Minimal drama, pleasant times and laughs, with affection and care.
I'm typically a bit reserved out of the gate, but that can change depending on how comfortable I feel around someone. I tend to see myself as: analytical and kind of artsy, love technology, love movies in general (I guess most people would say loving 'film' or 'cinema' is too pretentious!), interesting streaming series, music is an integral part of who I am, and I love having conversations about anything from the mundane to politics.
I don't eat meat but love all sorts of food. Indian food is my absolute favourite but am always interested in other styles...
I'm a hockey fan and just love Sid, I enjoy motorsports as well as being a fan of Formula 1.
As I get older I find that I seek connections with people that are more meaningful and interesting, be they friendships or something of a more romantic nature. I find as the world around us seems to become a harsher place that we need to be kinder - to others AND to ourselves.
I mostly don't mind if folks PM me but it would be great if you were polite and had a profile picture with something meaningful about you as well!
And lastly for those angry men out there who show their true colours after chatting a while, an excerpt from Psychology Today - "Finally, it is important to emphasize that a transgender individual’s gender expression is not responsible for eliciting the prejudice of others. Rather, transprejudice stems from an internal process in which the person holding the prejudice experiences a threat to an aspect of their own identity, and thus lashes out against trans individuals as a means of trying to reaffirm the boundaries surrounding important aspects how they define their identity—in this case, their gender."
Fun fact: In 2018 Dr. Joshua Safer, Executive Director of the Center for Transgender Medicine at Mt. Sinai Hospital, said, “Being transgender is not a matter of choice. It is not a fad … it is generally an overwhelming sense that their gender is not the one on their birth certificate.”